While
we can all agree that nobody is perfect, there are actually a few things that
would adversely affect a relationship if a man chooses to partner with a woman
with some not-so-great attributes.
Naij.com
presents you with the 10 kinds of woman a man should think twice about making a
wife.
1.
The Bitter Woman: You know that woman that always
seems to be angry at the menfolk all the time? Perhaps she has had her heart
broken one too many times, but this woman is always bashing on men and talking
about how they are no-good or useless. A man might not want to settle down with
someone so bitter as it is guaranteed that when the opportunity arises, she
would hurl hurtful insults and intense, hateful words his way due to all her
unresolved anger.
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2.
The Selfish Woman: If you want a happy home and a
partner that wants your happiness as well as hers, then you should steer clear
of the selfish woman. A woman who is determined to make sure she always comes
first would not be able to build a cheerful and loving home with you.
3.
The Materialistic Woman: A woman
obsessed with material things would certainly not make the best wife. If all
she cares about are material possession over family, faith and spiritual
fulfillment, then she will not make the best partner.
4.
The Flirty Woman: Are you attracted to that woman
that always seems to flirt with one person or another? She flirts like a
butterfly from one man to another and makes all men feel like she is interested
in them. Well, beware, because a habit like that might be hard to break after
marriage and you would not want to start hearing that your wife has had flirty
conversations with all the men in the neighbourhood.
5.
The Party Freak: She is invited to every party and
attends them all. She is always dressed in the most flashy clothes and is the
ultimate party girl. She lives for the next big gathering and cannot say no to
an invitation. Such woman might not be the type to settle down in a marriage.
6.
The Spoilt-Brat: A woman who grew up having
everything handed to her and has never had the experience of actually working
for something is unlikely to make the best wife. No matter how much you might
be willing to provide her with the kind of lifestyle she grew up with, remember,
marriage comes with kids and kids require sacrifice. If she has never had to
work or make sacrifices for anything in her life, it is unlikely that she would
start now.
7.
The Attention Seeker: While some women naturally like
attention, when it becomes an obsession, then it is not a good idea. A good
husband makes sure he has time for his wife, but this cannot happen 100percent
of the time so a good wife should understand that.
8.
The Gossip: Does she always seem to never mind
her own business? Is she always focused on what someone else is doing or how
someone else is living their life? Then you do not need this kind of woman as a
wife. A man needs someone that would build a home with him and this requires
some focus on her own plans and her own life. If she is too busy minding
someone else’s business, then you are fighting a losing battle.
9.
The Commitment-Phobe: A woman who finds it difficult to
commit to anything (school, jobs, family, friendship, etc) would also not be
able to commit to a marriage. If she seems to lose interest in everything
quickly and is always looking for the next thing to jump into, then you would
have a hard time keeping her focused in her marriage.
10.
The Disrespectful Woman: If she
seems to always be disrespectful and rude (even if it is to people she
considers beneath her standards) then you need to think twice about marrying
her. Respect for a fellow human being is a very important attribute in who we
choose to spend the rest of our lives with so it is definitely not something
that should be taken lightly.
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